Ladies, how hard is it dating a man with kids?

I imagine it can be difficult or equally successful and not all ex's come with drama. I would not let this put you off my best friend has been in a relationship with a guy with 2 children for 4 years and no major issues. She does not pretend to be the child's mom and respects the time that her man spends with his kids decent men will not be introducing you to their child after 5 minutes so you have a while before you have to entertain the idea of "dealing with a nightmare ex" if you ever do . Psycho ex's are a minority i think you just maybe missing out on a good man by avoiding men with kids.